The Power To Be

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Growing up in a communal kind of setting, it was very normal for us to meet the relatives and friends of other people living in the community. It was also very normal that whenever someone had a visitor with a kid our age, they would come to us, asking if we minded playing together or hanging out together.

And so it happened that one day, I was introduced to the daughter of one of the men living in the community. She was living with her mum in the States and was over for a couple of months visit. We got on like a house on fire.

Sharon was my age, and she was stunning. Seriously, it's something we didn't see on our parts; Very glamorous and Barbie-like, and the best thing was that she wasn't a snob like we half expected!

We spent the summer holiday together, the three of us - Sharon from the States, Lara (the British cousin of one of the women living in the kibbutz) and myself. I had to work during the days, but the afternoons and evenings were ours to roam the pavements, sit on the cliff overlooking the Sea of Galilee and talk, and talk and laugh oh-so-much!

Sharon had a photo with her of her boyfriend back in the States. I can't remember if they had broken up or if they were still going strong, but I liked the look of that boy, and Sharon was happy (and secure) enough to let me have it 🤭😅 ( we were about 15 at the time...).

The Summer Holiday finished, and both Sharon and Lara had to go back home. For me, it was back to school and, soon after, the Navy. I still carried that photo in my purse, and whenever people would see it, they would, of course, assume this was one of my own conquests... 🤭

I didn't mind. It was much better than my own story of being head-over-heels in love with someone who didn't love me back, and I didn't mind people assuming something about me that was nothing more than make-believe. If they asked, I told them the truth, but mostly, they would just smirk excitedly, and soon, conversations would move on to more interesting topics.

This story came to my mind earlier today, and I was wondering why it is that we don't fake things more often... Not the things that mightily important, but the stuff about how we feel about ourselves - mostly self-confidence and beliefs we can pull something off.

Imagine you are looking for a new job. You find something that has your job title, and you start going through the job description... Say there were ten items the job requires, but you only managed to find one and three-quarters you can confidently say you can do... You naturally conclude this is not for you and that you are not good enough. You also curse the job people for only wanting people who are clearly better and more experienced than you.

(ha! I knew you'd been there before 😄 - and by the way, we ALL have - even those who eventually got that job!!).

Imagine, instead, that you park your fears and ego to one side, bring out your imaginary boyfriend photo, and see that, on second look, the list of items IS perfect for you. How come?

Because the people advertising the job know it will be pretty hard for them to find someone with all the skills listed, they approach it as a Christmas List put together by a very excited kid... They know they might find someone with some of the requirements, but it would have to be a very special year filled with lots of good deeds to actually get each and every item crossed out!

But they also know that having this godly list will filter out all the candidates that are lacking the most important thing, which is the confidence to trust their abilities and experience and learn the rest on the job.

If, on the other hand, you decided to change this all around and played make-believe with a photo in your purse, you would find that you do have both the confidence AND the skills to go after what you want, but not in a shy, timid, way, but as a person that knows they already achieved way more complicated things than this illusion of impossibilities.

In other words... only one thing is standing between trusting and doubting your abilities, luck or success (of any kind) and that is your negative self-talk telling you that you can't...
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This week, in Healing Conversations, I was chatting with myself about 'How To Make A Healing Decision'.
Today's episode is all about the pivotal power of decision-making. How embracing a positive mindset and committing to change can pave the way to achieving your health and personal goals.

We'll delve into the importance of retraining our brains to focus on vitality, overcoming fears and limitations, and crafting actionable plans for success. Drawing inspiration from Dr. Carol Dweck's groundbreaking research on mindsets and Dr. Drake's insightful study on surgery recovery, we'll discuss how developing resilience and detaching self-worth from specific outcomes can turn setbacks into growth opportunities.

Through personal anecdotes, practical advice, and a spotlight on the often-overlooked emotional roots of chronic conditions, we'll explore how aligning coaching with energy healing can catalyse profound change.

More about einav:
Einav Avni is an accomplished energy healer and alignment coach specialising in the emotion code, body code, and belief code. With over 7 years of dedicated experience, she focuses on aiding individuals with chronic conditions to heal and alleviate their symptoms.

Through her expertise, Einav has gained profound insights into the healing journeys of her clients. Known for her all-in approach, she shares her experiences and is committed to providing support without causing frustration. Einav's mission is to help others achieve alignment and wellness in their lives.

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5) Book a FREE chat: https://calendly.com/einav-4/coaching...
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Dottie's Tip Of The Week

They say it took them a very long time to meet me, because the flat where they live doesn't allow cutie-patuties, but also, their mum kept saying she will know a dog is theirs when she see it.
And she did... One day she happened to search on 'pre-loved' website and saw my photo. A week later I was already here, fully loved and spoilt rotten (I think spoilt just enough, but apparently I am not the one to judge).

I loved all my past owners, but here I feel like I finally found my forever home. I like it. It feels so good!
(dictated by Dottie to your truly...)

Best Client's Quote This Week

People sometimes make a decision about what is possible to heal and what isn't way before we even speak!
Here is a quote to help remind you that there are no limits to the healing we can achieve!

I've worked with people to help them heal all sorts of medical conditions - mostly ones the doctors couldn't find drug-free solutions for. Examples?
- Fibromyalgia
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-Enlarged Prostate
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- Eczema
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- Sleep problems
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- Chronic Fatigue
- Long Covid
- Vertigo
- and so many more

To chat about your own conditions and how my methods can help, please book a chat using the link: https://calendly.com/einav-4/coaching-discovery-call

einav x