The three questions to ask

If you were suddenly granted some questions to ask, what would they be? Would you ask about life? The state of the world? (March 22nd 2026)

A reel came up on my feed with a man describing how one day he heard a voice calling his name. When he looked around, there was no one there, and when the same thing happened again, he remembered a story of some other origins that said: if you hear your name being called and there is no one around, answer back and say 'speak, for I am your servant'.

The man on the reel decided to do exactly that, and when the voice called again, he answered, and to his complete shock, the voice then continued to answer. Was it God? Well, who am I to know, but the reel-man said he asked all the questions he could think of. About the beginning of life, about life, death, love between people, war, etc.

It made me think about what questions I would ask, given the opportunity to converse with someone who has all the answers. I honestly don't think I would be jumping straight into the existential questions. I imagine that first I would want to know how my heavenly brothers are doing, and if they are finally ready to share the lottery numbers with me... You know? Stuff that matters... (please take this with a pinch of salt :) ).

So after some more reflection and consideration, here are the three questions I feel we will all do well to ask, given the opportunity, but the twist is, we don't need to wait for the higher connection to be open, we can ask these questions of our own higher self, and see how it guides us!

The THREE questions to ask:

1) Where am I not being honest with myself?
This question helps us to get to the core of where we know we are not operating from alignment, but from compromises, limitations and fears. When we pause and ask this question, our subconscious mind knows exactly where to take us; the 'subject matter' is illuminated, and we can make wiser decisions for ourselves.

2) What am I here to learn, not avoid, in this phase of my life?
A little too often, we forget we are here on a journey of learning, and feel happiest when things are just 'fine' and ticking over. The job is 'ok', the relationships are 'ok', the health is 'ok, and the day-to-day is also just 'ok'. We ask ourselves How can things be better', but mostly, only in this layer where we're moving from one shade of ok, to the next.
But ... we were not put on this earth to survive and be good with 'ok'. Each one of us is here to fulfil our own journey and purpose. What is it you're avoiding right now? What are you telling yourself that you can't do?

3) What would it look like for me to fully trust and live as myself?
By default, we tend to look for the negative and what isn't working for us. Then, we compromise and settle into something we can change, but we tell ourselves this is 'good enough'. When we dare to look ahead into a future that feels right, rather than one that is predicted, that's when we're finally getting into alignment.

If you wished something could change in your life, make it the courage to ask yourself the questions that make you the least comfortable, not those that bring judgment and belittling, but those that help you find your blind corners, in which you are settling for mediocre, staying in your comfort zone, and believing that there is even a small chance that you are not good enough.

What I would love to encourage us all to do is to be able to recognise when we are listening to the voice of our knowing (soul, unconscious mind, higher self), which gives us the solid feeling that we are in flow, vs the voice of our fears (ego, negative voice). Our fears will forever tell us we can't or shouldn't, our souls will always show us we can. And we really can, and what's more, we never even got closer to where that limit is. We are limitless, yet we allow our fears to set a truly remarkable low bar for ourselves.

And to finish on a positive note - if you feel it burning in your bones, it's a sign. Use it to guide your energy to your next level, next layer, next chapter - you've got this! (Also, note - you don't need to know how to get there, just that this is where you want to go. The Universe will do the rest, if you let it!)

This week in Healing Conversations

This week, my planned guest couldn't make it (he will return in mid-April), so I took to the stage to deliver a conversation that has its base in client conversations I've had this week.

'Listen in as Einav explores three powerful themes: who we attract into our lives and why, the inner battle between needing control versus letting go, and the vital practice of showing kindness to previous versions of ourselves. Through honest stories and practical wisdom, you’ll discover new ways to view challenges, embrace flow over resistance, and offer yourself the compassion you deserve. Whether you’re facing personal obstacles or seeking inspiration for growth, this episode will empower and uplift you on your healing journey.'

More about einav:
Einav Avni is a passionate advocate for personal empowerment and transformation. With a focus on helping individuals break free from the limiting narratives that often hold them back, Einav encourages a shift from blaming external circumstances to identifying and pursuing one's true desires. Her approach centres on the belief that recognising what we want, despite adversities, is key to unlocking potential and fostering meaningful change. Through her work, Einav inspires others to navigate their challenges with clarity and confidence, striving for a future filled with greater opportunities and positive interactions.

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Next week in Healing Conversations

Next week, I’m in conversation with Emily Stein about 'Re-mapping and Re-humanising: finding the beauty in the details of you'. Emily is using the Feldenkrais Method® to help people find Awareness Through Movement® and connect with their bodies like never before

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This showed up on my feed, so I thought you might be interested in this, too:
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Dottie's Corner

Don't judge me... It took me nearly 3 years to finally take over from where the HUUMAN was sleeping and make it my own!
This works particularly well when you know that everyone around you has work and studies to go to, and you can just laze in bed, not a care in the world...
You should try it!

I work extensively with people to help them transform their lives from fears, limitations and compromises, to harmony, alignment and joy, or in other words, helping people find natural healing to mind, body and soul.

To chat about your own situation and how my methods can help, please book a chat using the link: https://calendly.com/einav-4/coaching-discovery-call

einav x