This is your life

The lessons the Universe itself takes time to teach you (May 3rd 2026)

After a while listening to my client describe in clear detail how he was wronged by his coworkers, and how it was all their fault for making him be and feel the way he did, I had to take a new approach.

I told him I was going to take 5 minutes on the clock for this pity-party, after which, we were going to start again. He laughed, which helped a lot, and after 5 minutes of sharing how unfair it was and how miserable they made him feel, we were able to get deeper into what was actually going on.

If you've been here a while, I know you'd have heard me say this, but I am happy to say this again :)

This is your life. Even if you are a conjoined twin, you are still here to live your life, and not the life of anyone else. When you get triggered, annoyed, or feel hard done by, this is still NOT about the other people involved. It's just the opposite.

What do I mean? That the Universe is here to teach YOU something that you are now ready to learn. Something that builds on similar events that have happened oh-so-many times in your life before (different people, different scenarios, but absolutely the same patterns). Maybe you weren't ready to learn what you needed until now, but now that you are feeling so <name your emotion here>, you can bet it's finally time to figure out what the Universe is actually trying to say.

The Universe is trying to teach you something, and the truth is, it's been coming for a while, but you just put your fingers in your ears and refused to listen. Now the Universe has found the perfect people to help you realise something tailor-made for YOU only. So it's not about the other people. It's just about you. And when you see you are getting annoyed with someone, you know this is a FOR YOU something, not an ABOUT THEM situation.

When my client is talking about the other people in his team, we only have to ask one question, which helps us figure out how come this situation has come to light. In other words, we want to know what it was he believed about himself to get this situation started. Maybe that he isn't good enough, or that the other people know better, have been there longer, or that they have more qualifications than he does. Maybe he believes that no one is interested in what he has to say, or that other people always say what he wants to say better.

Whatever the inside story is, we know that once he can see his side of the story, in terms of his beliefs and where he was giving his powers away, that's also when this pattern is starting to lose its grip. The next time he finds himself in a similar situation, he will start operating from his new pattern, bringing us back to where we started: the Universe is always trying to teach us lessons that will help us move to a place that is bigger and better, or at least move us away from being or feeling stuck.

We all have patterns that no longer serve us. We all have patterns that we can't see. But when something comes up and smacks you in the face, I hope you can take a moment to ask yourself where you have seen this specific topic before, and that maybe it's time to bring it out into the open, instead of the usual 'stashing it away' choice.

Someone wise once said - When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change, and this is bang on the money. When you understand what is the ego-free reason you did something the way you have, you are less likely to do it next time around.

And if you can't figure out your patterns or how come they are repeated, you are welcome to schedule a call with me, and we'll go through this together!

This is step one to emotional freedom, stress reduction and self-love. I hope you gift it to yourself! :)

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I recently found this video, my older daughter did as a school project, telling the story of (Lord) Ganesh. This is the cutest thing you might ever see today! (made 10 years ago)

Link is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9T846zPGvs

Dottie's Corner

I was minding my own business when I was alerted to the sound of possibilities.

Maybe a trip in the car?
Maybe a little unexpected treat?
Maybe going for a walk in the park?

I came downstairs to check what the commotion was all about. Turned out someone was just popping over to the shops. Nothing exciting...

I went back to sleep. Disappointed no one did good on any of my hopes! Damn it!

I work extensively with people to help them transform their lives from fears, limitations and compromises, to harmony, alignment and joy, or in other words, helping people find natural healing to mind, body and soul.

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einav x